Finding your inner Orange Rhino

Recently I was randomly selected by a fellow blogger (of whom I greatly admire) to read and review her brand new book, Yell Less, Love More:How the Orange Rhino Mom Stopped Yelling at Her Kids – and How You Can Too!  Needless to say I was geeked to be chosen, being that I am a little bit of a superfan of Sheila McCraith, the original Orange Rhino.

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What is all this Orange Rhino talk you ask? Well here is Sheila’s explanation in her own words, but to sum it up, Orange Rhinos are those of us who are determined to parent well and effectively without resorting to anger and yelling. (as often as we can, while admitting that we are very human and it is WICKED hard.)

Sheila’s book did not disappoint. It is very much like her blog, in that it is honest, raw at times, funny, and downright smart.  She offers up her own accounts of times where she fell victim to her own “stuff” getting in the way of her patience which would then result in yelling.  When you read her book, you feel like you are sitting across the table from a fellow mama friend who is telling you her story in confidence.  But lucky for us, she is sharing it with the world!

Some of the best parts of the book are the tip boxes at the end of each section.  The tips are not only sensible and helpful but they are actually doable! They are not hippie dippie “make love not war” type suggestions but instead, practical, concrete things you can try to avoid blowing up at your children.  The more tools you can store in your toolbox against anger, the better prepared you are!

By far, my favorite part of the book is the section on “why” we yell.  This really hit home.  I thought about times where I snapped at my son, or snapped at one of my students for not following directions.  Just as Sheila mentions, nine times out of ten, I did not snap because of what my child did, but more so because of myself.  I am the one who is tired, emotionally exhausted, frustrated from my work day, suffering from PMS, hungry, you name it, I’ve been it, and it absolutely affects how you react to your children.  Which is why I feel the awful guilt after I do blow up, because I know it is not really because of what others have done, but what I am being affected by in that moment.  Just identifying your triggers, and realizing when you are in a more vulnerable state (not enough sleep, rough day at work, etc.) can help you be prepared for when you feel your face getting hot and your heart starting to race.

Definitely get out there and buy Sheila’s book, Yell Less, Love More, and take the pledge to stop yelling for 30 days.  You might be surprised at how much you learn about yourself through her words.

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Less yelling, more this…..

And……………..

Sheila has given me a copy of her book and a goody bag to give away to a lucky reader!

Check it out!

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3 Comments on Finding your inner Orange Rhino

  1. Emily
    October 14, 2014 at 8:09 pm (2 years ago)

    Hi! The contest is great! But I can’t get it to show the whole pop up box on my mobile phone, meaning I can’t hit the submit
    Button. Just letting you know!

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  2. Rebekah
    October 14, 2014 at 10:48 pm (2 years ago)

    Oh, I needed this today. I need this book so much right now. <3

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  3. Erin
    October 15, 2014 at 8:26 am (2 years ago)

    Hi Emily! I had the same issue when I first checked it out, but if you rotate your phone you should be able to see the whole box? Let me know if that works. Rebekah, thanks for commenting, can’t wait to see who wins!

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